Mailbag 5:31 am on March 15, 2012 Permalink | Reply
Saying why you quit the last job
I worked for my last company for 10 months. My numbers were high and my clients had only positive things to say regarding my service to them. I always knew that there were some issues with my fit in the company culture.
So, cutting to the chase, Penelope’s answer is: omit as much information as possible, and when necessary, lie.
I disagree with this approach. If we go through life lying because of the price potentially to be paid for telling the truth, the spiritual, relational, emotional, and eventually economic prices we pay will be much greater.
I am reminded of the story of patron saint of the legal profession, St. Thomas More, whose life became the basis of the movie “A Man For All Seasons.” More literally lost his head by holding to his truth. The movie basically states Thomas’ argument that he will not renounce his allegiance to God as a condition of showing his loyalty to King Henry VIII:
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So there you have it: the choice between the turning head and the head that is lost. For some the choice is easy, for the cost of the alternative is too high. For a few, knowing exactly which face is showing up at any given time is of more importance.
I counsel my clients not to lie. I also counsel them not to go into lengthy explanations for their departure. I certainly counsel them not to be negative or disparaging in their descriptions of the work environment or management personalities of their last job.
It is possible to simply state that you were terminated from your position for unstated reasons (which is often true) or to state the reason given, and that you did your best to address those reasons, and you feel that you were meeting expectations. State simply that you do not agree with the reasons given, and you really do not know the true reasons. (again, if this is a true statement.)
How refreshing and persuasive it would be for a fired employee simply to say in an interview: “I made some mistakes in my last employment. I learned from them. I have made adjustments. I will not make them in this job, if it is offered to me.”
In the limited time allocated in the interview, focus on your accomplishments. Let your face and body language express your enthusiasm to meet the needs of your new employer.
Attitude is critical. If you admit to a less than perfect job history, offset that with lots of positive statements about yourself, your successes, and your ambition to be the most successful employee possible. Express why you are excited about working for this company, and how you see yourself contributing and growing as a member of their team. Keep the overall tone of the interview upbeat and forward looking.
And don’t lie.
“If the pink slip doesn’t fit, get redressed!”